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Ian's avatar

"it's about desiring less"

This resonated with me. I've been thinking a bit about the Buddhist thoughts on desire being a cause of suffering. To be able to lower the strength and necessity of one's desire can really improve your daily mood and minimize a negative reaction to a perceived problem.

For example, traveling post-Covid has come with increased logistical challenges in the past year+, and it's easy to get frustrated when things don't go my way, or travel plans break in a cascade due to one hiccup that causes a delay. Just reducing my desire for an ideal outcome has really made me feel more at peace with the bumps and delays on the road.

Strong desires are sure to lead to disappointment, and often that mood stops one from enjoying the actual, amazing world. Successful, fulfilling travel (and life in general!) is all about maintaining flexibility, and we have to fight our natural tendency to over optimize. Not letting myself get attached to my optimized plans has really helped me eliminate a lot of stress and frustration.

And I agree wholeheartedly with your thoughts on physical items as well. I often sell things I own on craigslist or eBay to get it out of my inventory, as well as just tossing stuff regularly that I don't use.

I'm curious if you have any unique thoughts on packing for a trip? My mother was wondering why she needed an entire large suitcase for a 3 day trip, while we get by for months with just a backpack. 😂

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Lucas's avatar

Interestingly, the kindle I got a few years ago was probably one of my best buys, but I can never really get over the feeling that not having a shelf full of the books I read is a pity. Have you read any explanation on that matter?

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